I found this story on a Darren ‘s  blog I follow and wanted to share this again to show how we always judge people very quickly but don’t see ourselves often in the right light.


A young couple moved into a new neighbourhood.

The next morning while they were eating breakfast, the young woman saw her neighbor hanging the washing outside.

“That laundry is not very clean; she doesn’t know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better laundry soap.”

Her husband looked on, remaining silent.

Every time her neighbour hung her washing out to dry, the young woman made the same comments.

A month later, the woman was surprised to see a nice clean wash on the line and said to her husband, “Look, she’s finally learned how to wash correctly. I wonder who taught her this?”

The husband replied, “I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows.”



How often do we judge too quickly and not realize that it might be us looking at things differently or through different light (window).

Before we judge others we should always look into ourselves.



The best thing is not to judge and make assumptions. Life is kinder that way.

So I conclude with the No 3 of the 4 agreements from Miguel Ruiz:

3. Don’t Make Assumptions

Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.



Book Fangirling Blog Award


Matt from Matt and his cats awarded me the Book Fangirling Blog Award.

Matt thank you so much, I love books and I love reading.

book award

The Rules:

  • Create a post to accept your award.
  • Add the blog award button into your post.
  • Answer the questions I have below.
  • Nominate between 5-10 book bloggers who you think also deserve this award.
  • Come up with your own 5 questions for your nominees


Matt’s questions and my answers:

  1. Favourite quote from a book?

    It is from The Alchemist/ Paulo Coelho: “Remember that wherever you heart is, there you will find your treasure” and ” One is loves because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving”

  2. Favourite villain from a book?

    Jaws from James Bond, he is a villain but also so simple minded and somehow sweet.

  3. Have you ever read a book set in your home town?

    Yes, I love that. They are crime stories and they are set in my country and my county and some even in the town were I grew up in Germany. It is great to read where the villain walks and I know exactly where that is and can imagine it so well.

  4. Do you constantly reorganise your bookshelf?

    No need :-) … my books are all in alphabetical order of the author. Also I have German shelves and English shelves. All books are also recorded on a spreadsheet on excel.  I like it orderly…  :-)

  5. Which two protagonists, from two different book series’, would you lock in one room for an hour.

    How about Sherlock Holmes and Miss Marple…. what a pair, they have more to talk than an hour!


My questions:

  1. Which is your favourite corner of the house to curl up with a book?

  2. Do you read some books twice and why?

  3. Have you ever read secretly under the covers? Tell us more….

  4. What is your favourite genre and why?

  5. Which is your favourite children’s book?


My nominees are:

Russ, an author himself with super stories.

Gallivanta, I know is well read.

Trina from North Germany, who likes writing.

Terry, another author with inspiring stories.

Ladysighs, who writes the most amazing poems.


Happy Reading!


What were you grateful for today?


The days are getting shorter and it is almost night by the time we get home from work.

“Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.”
~Brian Tracy



There are so many things in my life daily I am grateful for.

Here are some of them:


My colleagues saying happily “Good Morning , what a beautiful day” to me this morning!


The wonderful healthy salad sandwich I had for lunch.


My cat sitting at the top of the stairs greeting me when I get home!


My fluffy teddy fleece cardigan.


The progress of my knitting, ( my Icelandic style jumper)


The hug my 22 year old son gave me.


The love I feel from you, my friends, close and far away.


What are you grateful for today?


Gratitude is one of the sweet shortcuts to finding peace of and happiness inside. No matter what is going on outside of us, there’s always something we could be grateful for. ” 

Barry Neil Kaufman

Pictures from Google

Life is short



Life Is Short And Unpredictable.

Don’t waste another minute on the people, places and things that don’t make you happy.


I found this some time ago… go for it….

“in honour of the fact that life is short

wear your white shirts. get them pressed.
use your good dishes — everyday.
shave on weekends.
do not wait for special occasions.
do not tuck your best away in the drawers, in the back of the closet, in your heart.
don’t wait for holidays or invitations.
declare that your today is the special occasion.
call instead of emailing. (it feels so good to connect.)
go for coffee.
renounce your glory days. you’ve told all of those stories more than twice.
focus forward.
wear perfume for yourself. toss your only-wear-around-the-house clothes and let your good clothes graduate to around-the-house status.
intend to feel good all of the time.
write your book.
make great sex a priority. (this alone will make you more creative and free. on your death bed, you will think about all the great sex you had this lifetime.)
burn your to-do list.
write poetry. One a day.
make a point to be as encouraging as possible, as much as possible, to everyone possible.
don’t look back.
if you feel like you’re always failing, consider that this is part of being an artist. let it be a divine inclination. keep going.

eat real food.
often refuse to be in the presence of people who make you feel repressed, anxious, or pull your frequency down.
do not entertain haters.
send light to the haters.
give it away. you probably don’t need it and someone else does.
turn off the tv.
let it be easy.
burn candles. during the day.
fall in love. with yourself. with the person you’re with. with the persons in your orbit.
because no one is perfect, but you can let the love be perfect for the both of you.
because everyone — everyone — is a doorway to God.
because you can get there from here.
because life is short.”

~ Danielle LaPorte


Another Award – Thank you


Matt from Matt and his cats has nominated me with the Dragon’s Loyalty Award.

Thank you so much Matt for thinking of me and I am happy to receive it and pass it on.

21st March 2013, 8th December 2013 and 30 October 2015

21st March 2013, 8th December 2013 and 30 October 2015


1. Display the award on your blog
2. Announce your win with a post and link the blogger who awarded you
3. Present 6 deserving bloggers with the award
4. Link your awardees in the post and let them know of their being awarded
5. Write seven interesting things about you.

Here 7 facts about me:

  1. Today is my cat’s “Thomas” birthday, he is a Halloween baby. I don’t celebrate Halloween but I got a party hat for Thomas.oct15 (12)

  2. I love Autumn; here are the beautiful colours of the forests on the hills in Germany.herbst

  3. I am looking forward to Christmas, the time before is so lovely with dark nights, candles, hot chocolate and snuggling into a warm cardigan.

  4. I have just bought wool to knit a Icelandic style cardigan. Hopefully it will be finished for Christmas.

  5. I love doing jigsaws, it relaxes me. Thomas my cat does try and help too…well sort of….bless him.DSC_0150

  6. Specially now that it gets colder outside, I am a fan of open tea, my favourite at the moment is Lemongrass and Vanilla sweetened with honey!

  7. Cardigans are my favourite…. I do love knit ware and I am known for my cardigans. I never go anywhere without one.

Here are my nominees: If you don’t do awards please see it as appreciation, as I do love your blogs.

Me and the boss



Lovely rita flowermaid

Knitting with heart

Simple pleasures


Enjoy the award and wishing you all a wonderful week!




Simple and beautiful


Look at this beautiful little plant.

Sept 15 (20)

Isn’t it a pretty, delicate, little flower, perfectly formed, presenting its yellow and purple colour.

Yes, it is a simple potato plant.

The simplest things are sometimes the most beautiful ones.

Not only orchids deserve mention and being photographed for their beauty.

It is the same with people.


Everyone is beautiful.

We are all different but all beautiful.

Everyone is unique,

Everyone is outstanding,

Everyone deserves the same love.



Sending love to all my beautiful friends! 

A lovely blog award


Kally from Middle me has nominated me for the lovely blog award and I am very happy and honoured to receive this from Kally.  Please pop over to her blog,it is full of great advise and inspiration.


21st October 2015

21st October 2015

The Rules:

  1. You must thank the person who nominated you and include a link to their blog.

  2. You must list the rules and display the award.

  3. You must add 7 facts about yourself.

  4. You must nominate 15 other bloggers and comment on one of their posts to let them know they have been nominated.

 7 facts about myself:

  1. I love knitting and crocheting, I just started to crochet hearts, an additional touch for my upcoming Christmas presents.hearts

  2. I am a very sociable person and love people around me. That is why I loved so much working in Hotels at the front desk. A most interesting job.

  3. My dream is to open a mindful “let your senses taste” tea shop, where I serve  open tea with different aromas, and you sit and relax and enjoy sip by sip in a mindful , meditative way. An oasis in this busy world.tea

  4. I enjoy walking and try to keep fit. I measure it with my step counter/fitbit. Got 11,000 steps today! Yay

  5. Now for Christmas are performances coming up and I am so happy that I am taking part in Choir and dancing performances. ( My big Tap performance is in February with a Charleston). A picture in my dress coming up later….

  6. I am a cat person and love my Thomas on my lap , which he is right now. He is a very loving cat.cat (2)

  7. I am a morning person. I prefer to get up early and enjoy a calm start to the day with gratitude and reflection.x2 (34)

 And here is my favourite picture,

and with this I wish you a super happy , smiley day!


Little change of rules here  just for this one, as all blogs I read really deserve this, they are all lovely!

So here 5 nominations, some new blogs I follow:


wanderings of clare


embracing life

a leaf in springtime